Wednesday, 10 October 2018

my battles

my battle is what lies between me and my own goals. everything including everyone else's race is not something i need to worry about.

walaupun saya sendiri masih dan harus terus belajar soal fokus, saya selalu coba tanya balik kalau ada yang curhat ke saya: "tujuan lo apa?", "purpose lo apa?", "goals lo apa?"

banyak hal yang kita permasalahkan, khawatirkan, bingungkan, dll itu sebenernya bukan bagian dari perjuangan kita mencapai tujuan. makanya kita sering bilang.."lah dia mah enak bisa ini itu, punya ini itu,..."

loh..kebiasaan dan kemampuan orang lain kok jadi masalah kita? inever want to be preachy, but it's also a self reminder for me: set the goals, go for them. grow and be better person along the way..


Tuesday, 2 October 2018

bear in mind

children learn more from whatyou are than what you teach. they are watching. how you win, how you lose, if you are curious, if you take your time, if you help others, how you love, how you get angry, how you talk to others, how you talk about problems, how you prioritize, how you recycle, how you spend your leisure time, how you think about money, family, work, how you treat your friends...everything.

based on how you treated your husband today, what did you teach your son to lookfor in a wife.

childhood friendships are key bulding blocks for relationships in later life.

i could watch her sleep all day.all those poses and movements during her sleeps are my joy, all the dreams that she feels are my dreams too, and all the smiles when she sleeps are my strength.

the sign of a beautiful person is that they always see beauty in others-omar suleiman

carrying your baby comforts them. because they can easily see you, smell you, hear you, and your heartbeat. it's a bonding time. and there is no such thing such as bau tangan ya ibu ibu   

Wednesday, 26 September 2018


when you are filled with self-love, you make better choices.

i think that when enough time has passed, when you have survived that which you didn't imagine you could, there is a dignity in that. something you can own. a pride in knowing the pain made you stronger. the pain made you fight to succeed. someday, when i'm living my dreams, i'm going to think of all the things that broke my heart and i'm going to be thankful for them.

the world is full of beautiful places, let your heart be one of them. 

one of the happiest moments in life is when you find the courage to let go of what you can't change.

there are 3 things that Allah keeps a secret from us and is beyond our control. among these 3 things is your soulmate, sustenanace, and death. for we know that whatever happens, only happens with His permission.

fix your heart, your heart will fix your mind. and your mind will fix your tongue, and your tongue will fix your attitude. eventually your attitude will fix your life, and your life will fix your akhirah and that's what we strive for.

adopting the right attitude can convert a negative stress into the positve one.
sometimes we are the one who can control the negativity. never let it live in us. never let negativity makes everything harder for us. it takes a simple attitude to make it better. it takes a simple positive thought to make us feel better. Allah al-Musta'an.