Ya Allah, forgive those who have hurt us.‬
‪Ya Allah, forgive those who have caused us pain.‬
‪Ya Allah, forgive those who have harmed us.‬
‪Ya Allah, forgive those who plot against us.‬
‪Ya Allah, forgive them for what they say about us.‬
‪Ya Allah, forgive them for their harsh words. ‬
‪Ya Allah, give them all the goodness in this life and the Next.
Ya Allah, most importantly, grant us, Ya Allah, the strength to forgive ourselves.‬
‪Ya Allah, grant us the strength to not blame ourselves for what they say about us.

How you respond to people who hurt you says a lot about you. Not them.